‘Naming Legal Guardians’ To Your List of Resolutions This Year
legal guardians is the best way to ensure that your kids would be
raised by the people you want, if something unexpected happens to you.
Bethesda and Largo estate planning attorney, Nicole K. White, reveals
an easy, 3-step process to help you choose.
something no parent likes to think about, but according to Bethesda and
Largo estate planning attorney, Nicole K. White, there’s no better time
than the New Year to handpick legal guardians who can raise your kids
if something happens to you.
show that 69% of US parents do not have legal guardians named to care
for their kids in the event of sudden death or incapacity. If both
parents should pass away at once (similar to the horrific
car accident, which received national attention earlier this year),
judge will have no choice but to step in and and make painful custody
decisions on your child’s behalf.
someone who doesn’t know you, your wishes or the needs of your
children, White says “a judge is the last person you want making
life-altering decisions for your family if a tragedy strikes.”
is why White urges parents to sit down and choose legal guardians for
their minor children at the start of the New Year. To help simplify the
process and narrow down candidates, White recommends the following 3
1. Sit down and brainstorm all the people
who could possibly raise your kids if you were killed or
incapacitated in an accident. says don’t
limit your choices to family either. Think outside the box and create a
column where you will list out everyone who comes to mind.
2. Determine who you
would NEVER want to raise your kids in your absence. White says
you’ll need to tell the courts who you don’t want raising your kids in
the event that individual contests your wishes and seeks custody of
your kids anyway (This can be kept private and only revealed if the
3. Weigh your values.
White believes weighing values is one of the most overlooked steps when
naming guardians, which is why she recommends making a third column and
writing down what is important to you and/or your spouse. Do you value
education? Religious or spiritual training? The ability to live in a
certain community? Being raised in a two-parent family? Whatever your
values may be, White says be honest about them, write them down,
prioritize them and eventually rank the top three.
From there, White advises parents to match their top
guardian choices to their top values. This will give you a clear
picture of who you can trust to raise your children with the values you
hold near and dear to your heart.
Finally, White urges parents to legally document their
choice of guardians so that there’s no question as to who you want to
raise your kids if the unthinkable happens.
“Talk to a local attorney and legally document who you
want to physically and financially care for your kids if something
happens to you,” urges Nicole K. White. “It’s the greatest gift you can
give your children should tragedy ever strike,” she adds.
For more information about naming guardians for your
minor kids or estate planning attorney Nicole K. White, please call
(301) 968-1630 or visit http://www.kinseylawgroup.com.