4 Mistakes to Avoid When Choosing A Guardian

When you have minor children, you should always name temporary (short-term) and permanent (long-term) guardians.

A temporary or short-term guardian is someone (or a couple) who will immediately be there for your children if anything happens to you. For example, if you are in a car accident, your temporary guardian will care for your children until you are able to do so. Your temporary guardian should be someone who lives nearby, within 20 minutes or so.

A permanent or long-term guardian is someone (or a couple) who will care for your children for the long term if you are unable to do so. For example, if you become permanently disabled or if you pass away, your temporary guardian will first step in to care for your minor children until the permanent guardian can take over.

Here are four mistakes to avoid when you choose temporary and permanent guardians for your minor children.

1. Naming only permanent guardians.
Usually parents name permanent guardians for their minor children in their Wills. While this is a good thing to do, it does not fully protect your children in the event you become temporarily disabled or incapacitated. Permanent guardians named in your Will only take effect if you pass away.

2.  Choosing enough alternates.
You should always choose at least two alternates for your temporary and permanent guardians. You never know if a named guardian will be unavailable when needed. Having alternates will prevent any delays.

3.  Choosing a couple.
If you are thinking about selecting a couple as guardian for your minor children, ask yourself if you really want to name the couple as guardian or just one member of the couple as guardian. For example, you name your sister and her husband “jointly or the survivor.” This means that if anything happens to your sister, your brother-in-law, who you may not like, will be guardian of your children.

By using phrases such as “jointly or the survivor,” “jointly only,” or “alone” when naming a couple as guardian, you can clearly define exactly who you want acting as guardian for you minor children.

4.  Not excluding individuals who you don't want as guardian.
If you are absolutely sure you do not want certain people acting as a guardian for your minor children, then formally exclude them in writing. It's simple to create a document naming individuals that you do not want to care for your minor children. Don't forget to get it notarized!

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